Mankato Marriage Solutions Blog
Marriage is one of life’s most fulfilling yet challenging relationships. Every couple faces ups and downs, from communication struggles and intimacy issues to financial stress and parenting conflicts. At Mankato Marriage Solutions, we believe that with the right guidance, support, and practical tools, couples can navigate these challenges and build a stronger, healthier relationship. Our blog is dedicated to providing expert advice, real-life solutions, and encouragement to help you and your partner reconnect, grow, and thrive together. Explore our articles to find the insights you need to strengthen your marriage today.
- By Thad Shunkwiler, LMFT
Every couple argues.
Yes—even the ones who seem to have it all together. Conflict is not a sign your relationship is broken. It’s a sign that two different people, with different histories, emotions, and needs, are trying to build a life together. The goal isn’t to avoid conflict at all costs—it’s to learn how to navigate it in a way that strengthens, not splinters, your connection.
- By Thad Shunkwiler, LMFT
Few experiences in a marriage shake the foundation quite like infidelity. Whether it was a one-time incident or a prolonged betrayal, discovering that trust has been broken leaves couples reeling—grappling with heartbreak, anger, confusion, and a thousand unanswered questions.
- By Thad Shunkwiler, LMFT
Sexual disconnection doesn’t always come with drama or sudden events. Often, it creeps in quietly, built over years of small resentments, communication breakdowns, physical changes, life transitions, and emotional avoidance. While it’s a common experience, that doesn’t make it any less painful. For many couples, this loss of intimacy can feel like the beginning of the end—even if everything else appears stable on the surface.
- By Thad Shunkwiler, LMFT
Marriage is meant to be a partnership, a union where both individuals contribute to building a life together. But in many relationships, one partner begins to feel like they’re carrying the majority of the load—whether it’s managing the household, taking care of the kids, planning social events, or providing emotional support. Over time, this imbalance can create resentment, emotional distance, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Addressing unequal effort isn’t about keeping score; it’s about fostering mutual respect, communication, and a shared commitment to supporting one another.
- By Thad Shunkwiler, LMFT
Communication is the heartbeat of a strong marriage, yet many couples unknowingly let silence and misunderstandings erode their connection. Small miscommunications snowball into emotional distance, resentment, and conflict—until the relationship feels broken. But it doesn’t have to be this way. Learn how to identify communication pitfalls and discover expert-backed strategies to reconnect, rebuild trust, and strengthen your marriage before it’s too late.